But actually it began a few weeks ago. One by one farewell events have been popping up on our calendars making us realize just how many people we have met here in Albania. Lunches and dinners with both individuals and large groups are being planned. More than one reception is planned as well. We are hosting some of these events ourselves while others are being held in our honor. This morning friends hosted a farewell brunch for me with the entire American Embassy family. I was touched by the outpouring of people who gave up their Saturday morning to come and say goodbye. I survived without shedding any tears but there were moments when I came close. I was reminded that I have met some truly wonderful people here in Tirana. But this morning was just the tipping point. From here on out we have at least one farewell event scheduled for every evening until we depart. Some days we have lunches scheduled as well. Sure we will be physically busy saying goodbye to so many people but it will be emotionally draining as well. While some people are professional acquaintances others are true friends. As much as we are ready to leave, severing some of these ties is turning out to be harder than I had anticipated. And it is a reminder that no matter how many times you do it, saying goodbye is very hard indeed. Before it is all over I am sure a tear or two will fall.
So in the languages of everyone we are saying goodbye to, farewell, arrivederci, adios, lamtumirë, pożegnanie, au revoir, auf wiedersehen, la revedere, свидания, αντίο, 见, afscheid.............
Until you have lived overseas, as we both have, do you really understand how many important personal connections we make with other people and how difficult it is to leave them. Good luck on your next adventure!ReplyDelete